Monday, March 29, 2010

Lesson Learnt from "Lage Raho Munna Bhai"

  • Sometimes cheating might help you in achieving your goal or getting to know a person you want to meet.
  • Don't slap your child if he/she made a mistake  Instead teach them to work hard in order to earn the money back again.
  • To judge someone observe how she/he treats the less fortunate. It will give you a hint whether it is worth dealing with this person in the future or not, whether it is your life partner or business partner.
  • Slapping someone is easy. Apologizing requires courage.
  • Our mighty weapon should be a smile not strife.
  • Don't be too superstitious.
  • Be honest, live truthfully and live with pride.
  • It's not important how much You know, as long as you know WHO KNOWS what you need to know-> in order to win a competion.
  • Being honest in the long term pays off.
  • In life you always meet anyone twice. So never be offensive or treat someone bad the first time. In life you never know. You might meet a particular person again and you might need her/him.
  • Violence never works.
  • Always admit it, if you love someone. The moment might come in which you might regret not having already done it earlier.
  • Respect your parents, Celebrate their birthdays in a special way, this is even more important once they grow older.
  • If you give your parents a lift by car and drop them somewhere (e.g. old age house) accompany them inside and don't just drop them saying you are in a hurry. Always plan accordingly enough time for it and make them feel a bit more appreciated and taken care of.

Lesson Learnt from "Waqt - The Race against time"

  1. Love your child but don't spoil your child too much by pampering and fulfilling all wishes.
  2. If you suffer from any kind of cancer, tell your kids about it. Don't wait until you are dead in order to let them realize that they lost you. Give them the chance to show you how much they love you. It's good for your soul. Your kid could also think: I wished I could have …… once you were still alive, but unfortunately they couldn't because they didn't know how serious your illness was.
  3. Be aware of your responsibilities as a man, once you decide to set up your own family. Don't expect your parents to look after you. Show your wife that you can take your life in your own hands and that you take care of your family by yourself by working hard.
  4. Remember that a father might kick you out of the house but in the end he will still love you.

Lesson Learnt from "Taxi No. 9-2-11"


  • Treat taxi drivers with respect.
    • Don't drink drive when you know that the next day you have an important day in court.
  • Always be  friendly to people when you need something from them (whether you are rich or poor).
  • Don't lie to your wife in terms of your job .
  • Don't do things that might embarrass you in front of your kid.
  • Have few, but good friends. Those who don't look for your company only then when you are rich, but also in terms where you are in trouble and not rich anymore.
  • Don't ruin other people's life. They could do the same to you too.
  • Every encounter is good for a reason.
  • Do good deeds and good deeds will return.
  • Appreciate your (whether rich or poor) father as long as he is alive. Should you not inherit any money from him, you should still miss HIM more than his MONEY.

Lesson Learnt from "Kyun-Ho Gaya Na"

  • Never ask a stranger to look after your luggage while you go to the toilet at a station/airport.
  • If you love someone just say it if you really mean it. Otherwise you might just disappoint and hurt other people's feelings.
  • Love doesn't need time, just a moment.
  • Life is a game, those who love will win.
  • Don't say that 'love' doesn't exist in your vocabulary, even though you might not be interested in it at a particular stage in your life. But should you really fall in love with someone who knows about how you feel about it, you might never get a chance to be taken seriously.
  • If you love someone don't wait to let the person know about how you feel! (This is a message you will encounter in many movies.) It could be that someone else thinks the same as you and is quicker than you in declaring his/her love to your beloved one. What a pity it would be if you would have lost this person just because you kept it for yourself.
  • If you want to adopt a child from an orphanage make sure that it is the right kid you are looking for. Don't say initially "yes", and then "no" as soon as you realise that he is not physically abled

Lesson Learnt from "Nishabd"

                                  
  • Don't wipe food on other people's couches.
  • Don't forget that the real reason of life is to be happy.
  • Don't distract a man while driving with your flirting acts, it could lead to an accident or even death.
  • Smile a lot. It costs nothing. 
  • In life you never know what happens to you. Never say NO
  •  A 18 year old doesn't have the maturity to understand what really matters in life or what real love is yet.   
  • Stick to Your Family , Don't Flirt Young ladies, making your life miserable 
  • Instead of FLirting and cheating a young girl, Rejuvenate your current relationship with your wife.

Lesson Learnt from "Humko Deewana Kar Gaye"

  • Make sure you don't forget Special occasions like your engagement party!
  • Always accompany a lady to the hotel's or home's door. Don't just drop her somewhere.
  • Don't encourage Gossips about a girl.
  • Don't share confidential information  with friends, particularly not in public.
  • Sometimes you need to miss your loved one in order to realise how close and important this person is to you.
  • Relation must be the bonding of hearts. If there is no bonding, then the relation suffocates the person.

Lesson Learnt from "Baabul"

                                     
  • As a parent don't house arrest a widow (your daughter-in-law)  for the rest of her life. Try to make her happy by giving her enough freedom and support
  • Sometimes it is required to break the rules in order to be happy. Life is bigger than traditions.
  • In love there are no limit.
  • If you love someone let the person know how you feel.
  • If you are not lucky to get married to the person you love, never give up.

Sunday, March 28, 2010

Lesson Learnt from "Provoked"

  • If you go out with your husband to a party and he doesn't want to dance and another man (or even his friend) asks you to dance with him - even if your husband insists you could dance with the other guy - never accept. In the end he will just be jeaulous and furious. It could have serious consequences. Just stick to your husband, even though he says he doesn't mind.
  • If you killed your husband and you have been abused by your husband and charged for murder and being asked whether your mother-in-law has ever witnessed any kind of domestic violence (and the answer is yes) don't expect her to speak in your favour in court. In the end every mom defends their own child, no matter what. So don't be surprised if she shows you the cold shoulder.
  • Don't feel ashamed if your husband/partner abuses you, he should be the one to feel ashamed. So speak up in court.
  • Don't get married to someone you don't know at all!
  • Even in prison, try to learn something in the meantime, e.g. improve your English.
  • Don't put career in front of truth if you are a policeman. Don't lie in court.
  • Try to be independent as a women in financial terms. Have your own money. If it is getting dangerous, you don't depend on your husband. Don't allow your husband to abuse you, to kick you down the stairs when you are pregnant, cheats on you, rapes you.
  • Don't think that your husband might always be as nice as in the early days of dating. Very often it happens that in times of financial difficulty you might experience a very different side of your husband's character.Watch out!
  • "In life there is no honour in silence suffering there is no affection, no comfort be found to be abused. It is our responsibility as mothers to raise our sons to treat women with love and respect not violence and anger. Only then will the suffering end!" (original final sentence in the movie)

Lesson Learnt from "Veer Zara"

  • If someone asks you at the death bed to do something, do it without hesitation!
  • Avoid gossip. Wait until you get to know the facts..
  • Don't disable women. Allow them to have the same chance as men, particularly when it comes to education..
  • Even if your parents expect you to get married to a person from your culture, religion etc. sometimes it's just not that what you want. See across national borders and decide to get married to the person who would actually sacrifice his/her life for you, no matter what the person's background is. It might be really difficult to convince your parents, relatives etc. but in the end it's YOUR life..
  • Life is more important than love. You might be in a position in which you might have to make a big sacrifice by rescuing a person's life (health, reputation) and that unfortunately might be more important than getting married to the person you actually love..
  • Original statement "Love is only found in books, poetry. Not in life!" Well, you decide whether it's true or not. But sometimes unfortunately money and power seem to be more important than true feelings. Therefore, never underestimate the value of power and money..
  • Be very careful when declaring your love in front of a person's fiance. It could be that soon you might end up in jail for something you are not guilty at all..
  • Let the person know that you love her/him NOW. Don't wait, otherwise it could be already to late. Someone you get introduced to, might turn out to be the fiance of your beloved person..
  • Call a prisoner by his name not by his number..
  • If in the near future there is an important event in which you play an active role (e.g. you are a lawyer and have your first case in court) then go to the venue beforehand in order to get familiar with the surrounding environment. Take some time to visualise how you expect the day to turn out in order to gain confidence. See yourself winning the case successfully. It might definitely help you on the crucial day..
  • If you are working in law then your goal should be to fight for the truth not just to win..
  • Don't underestimate younger fellows. Even if you are a well-respected and experienced lawyer, sometimes it could be that a younger and less experienced fellow might defeat you.

Lesson Learnt from "Mohabbatein"

  • Behind every great success lies a great sacrifice. Remember that before you succeed you might have to fail many times.
  • Don't apply for jobs but create your own job, take the initiative and sell your idea to a potential employer who might benefit from your skills and service.
  • In doing this, wait for the right moment and get other people interested in what you can do for them (or what might offer them some benefit).
  • If you are a person who doesn't like change, then watch out for people who implement change even in small things.
  • If you love someone, just go and tell her/him.
  • Never forget your child's birthday!
  • Don't forget someone just because this person doesn't love you, too and maybe considers you just as a friend. Love shouldn't be based on a condition.
  • Don't embarrass anyone in front of everyone.
  • Don't stop living, therefore don't stop loving!
  • Be aware of girls who just look at your bank account, rather than your true feelings.
  • No job is big or small, as long as it's done with all your heart.
  • Never say to your father that he looks stupid, fat and ugly.
  • Love somebody the way they are, not the way you want her/him to be.
  • Don't compromise in love.
  • Allow your daughter to love who she wants. Otherwise, she might commit suicide, you never know. How would you feel….?
  • Don't promise something to someone without asking the decision-maker for his permission beforehand.
  • As a father-in-law allow your daughter-in-law to have a life, even if your son has died.
  • If you want to show your feelings and your love to someone, then do it! Write it down, be it a leaf or whatsoever.
  • Respect is earned by love not fear!

Lesson Learnt from "Aetbaar"


  • Think before you act , have control on your words when you are talking about negative points of others.
  • Don't always judge a person with first meeting. Don't rely always on first impressions, sometimes you need to meet a person more often in order to  really judge someone. A very nice person could turn into a killing beast.
  • People with a difficult childhood can have problems later in life.
  • If someone shows signs of violence, don't think it might just be a unique occurrence. This person might be violent again later on. Therefore try to hang out with other people.
  • Don't hurt your parents by saying bad things to them if they just want your best.
  • As a man don't hit your wife. This could have a severe impact on your kid's life later on.

Saturday, March 27, 2010

Lesson Learnt from "Dil Jo Bhi Kahey"

  • Don't make a fool out of people.
  • Don't be egoistic as a parent
  • Respect your parents.
  • Don't say you are pregnant if you are not, just to get your wish fulfilled. But make sure you get married to a person you love and not just to do a favour to your parents. It's your life!

Lesson Learnt from "Bhagam Bhag"

  • Solve a problem by involving your staff and let them do the job  and reward them (meritocracy)
  • Make sure you know the difference between people.
  • Don't slap a woman!
  • Don't commit suicide.
  • Sometimes you need to improvise to get the information you need.

Lesson Learnt from "Phir Hera Pheri"

  • Be skeptical if someone tells you that you can make quick money, even from a beautiful lady.
  • Remember: The world is small! If you owe someone it's better to be loyal
  • Don't promise anyone when you are not sure of fulfilling that.
  • Sometimes it is better not to be too honest.

Lesson Learnt from "Malamaal Weekly"

  • Money is not that important in our life, it is just a necessity
  • Never be too greedy when it comes to money.
  • should be always Simple in life.
  • Committing suicide doesn't solve problems.

Friday, March 26, 2010

Lesson Learnt from "Dil Chahta Hai"

  • One Doesn't Need drugs and Cigarettes for Freaking out and enjoying life 
  •  There are relationships apart from being Lovers,marriage,siblings,friendship that can be very emotional and true, which is beyond the understanding of many people. 
  • There is a limit for every one even though you may be the best of friends . It starts hurting if one crosses that.
  • Improving our imperfections after you realize it, always takes some time. but will lead you to great heights
  • True love cant be expressed so there is no point of proving your love
  • Believe in Love, true love will never let you down.
  • Never be ashamed to go back to your old friends, friends are there to understand your mistakes.
  • Do not be afraid of others, always think that others are afraid of you.(Australian Beggar)
  • Whenever you need your friend , remember that he is just a phone call away...distances can't separate friends.
  • In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.
  • It's the friends you can call up at 4 A. M. that matter.
  • The only unchangeable certainty is that nothing is certain or unchangeable.
  • The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with - never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.
  • And last but not the least- do what your heart loves ...karo wahi jo DIL CHAHTA HAI!!!
  • Respect Friendship and LOVE.
  • Never Give Up because When You Try Hard Even The Word IMPOSSIBLE Seems To Say I'm possible...

Lesson Learnt from "Black"

  • Never Hurt anyone if they are Physically Handicapped, and never make  fun of them
  • Eyes don't see Dreams but the Mind does. So Everyone can dream and try to achieve that no matter what he is.
  • Never Neglect anyone in Your Family
  • Celebration of Failures should be done as they are the stepping stones for success. Only after falling one can rise
  • Life is like an Ice Cream , enjoy it before it melts
  • Everything is possible in this small world. there is always i'm possible in the word " Impossible"

Lesson Learnt from "Fanaa"

  • Loyalty Is an Important Quality , People will Trust if you are Loyal
  • Without pains there are no gains..
  • Never show Your anger on the people who are not Responsible for that
  • @Gals: Never waste your time on guys who says " Women are like cities for me, i spend sometime in one .. then move to other one..."
  • Never judge people by looks
  • To understand yourself to the fullest , at times you have to see yourself from others' point of view.
  • Never expect much from anyone, if it happens in the other way, that leads to deep disappointment




Lessson from "Ek Ajnabee"

  •  As an Adult be always close and be kind  to children and be a role Model to them as many of them might be admiring you
  • Be skeptical on whom u trust, and never underestimate the power of money. Be careful at all times.

Lesson Learnt from "Chak de India"

One of the inspiring Bollywood sports movies.

  • Play for the country first,then for teammates and then for yourself......
  • It Doesn't Matter what you are and Who you are, the only that matters is your Character
  • Team Work pays you a lot, it's always better to be a part of team and to respect for other team members.Work with each other, not against each other.
  • Never Underestimate Girls
  • Girls should never think that they could never compete with guys. Mind winds game, Never get discouraged with the failures but get inspired and motivated.
  • Make sure that you get married to a person who also respects your wishes.